Keep the Slate Clear

Forgiveness

From Jim’s Heart

Have you ever noticed that, as a man, asking for or offering forgiveness is often very difficult? It’s almost as hard as asking for directions! Why is that?

Well, I can’t answer for you, but for me, pride is often the culprit, especially in my marriage. Here’s how it goes: I say or do something stupid to Elizabeth that’s—shall I say … a little gruff? Then, instead of immediately asking for forgiveness and being done with it, my pride says, “No, I was right about what I said,” or “Well, it wasn’t that bad!”

Regardless of my wife’s response, as long as I fail to label my deed as “sin” and ask her forgiveness, there is a cloud over our relationship—all because I wasn’t humble enough to admit I was wrong.

Let me encourage you to learn to quickly admit wrong and ask for forgiveness … no matter what. Keep the slate clear and the communication line open with your wife. Forgive each other, “just as God in Christ also has forgiven you” (Ephesians 4:32).

In A Man After God’s Own Heart, you’ll discover God’s perfect design for how you can make a difference in all the key areas of your life:

  • Marriage–what it means to love, lead, and protect your wife
  • Children–the keys to training them up and shaping their hearts
  • Work–modeling integrity and diligence in the workplace
  • Wallis Zbitnew. ,

    I recently discovered with the help of a third person that I a woman had offended a man by helping a woman whose husband ied to plan his funeral. The man who was offended had been his friend for more than 40 years. In addition when we prayed holding hands around a table I neglected to include him and his wife to hold hands with us. SO even though I was not aware of this for one year, when it was brought to my attention I asked him to forgive me and he did. All is well now.
    Sometimes we do not realize we have offended others.

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    Elizabeth & Jim George


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